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We all know it: During the getting-to-know-you phase, our thoughts and feelings go crazy. During this time we are often accompanied by a feeling of uncertainty as to whether this relationship will last. The “Bird Test,” which is currently trending on TikTok, gives you the answer. We’ll tell you how it works so you can put your relationship to the test.
This is the “Bird Test”
If you follow psychology trends on TikTok, you can’t ignore the “Bird Test” at the moment. This test is intended to help you find out whether the person you are talking to is really serious about you. What is his or her attention really like? Let the bird fly!
This is what the “Bird Test” is based on
Don’t worry: the test isn’t just a random TikTok trend that will quickly be forgotten. It is based on an idea by couples therapist John Gottman, who focuses on interactions with his partner in his research work “bids for connection”. If physical closeness, questions or conversations are rejected or even ignored, it probably doesn’t bode well for your relationship. Couples who engage in these interactions often stay together longer.
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“Look a bird!” This is how the test works
Because the “Bird Test” can be used unobtrusively in every everyday situation, it initially seems banal. Whether on a walk, eating or on the train – you can say the crucial sentence of the test everywhere: “Look at a bird!”
The reaction of the other person decides how your relationship is going. If your partner responds to your excited sentence or exclamation with interest, your relationship has a good chance. If your sweetheart responds in a bored and uninterested manner, your connection is weak and probably only temporary. Instead of a bird, you can use other irrelevant topics or objects. In the end, the focus of the test is on how interested your partner reacts.
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Here you can use the “Bird Test”.
First and foremost, you can use the “Bird Test” when dating to find out whether a relationship with your date is possible. But the “Bird Test” can also provide clarity among friends, family members or work colleagues with whom you will get along very well in the future.
You’ve done the “Bird Test”: Now what?
The results of the test can show how compatible you are with someone within a few seconds. This psychological test will also play an important role in the future. Nevertheless, you should not make a long-term relationship or friendship dependent on an uninterested reaction and, in the worst case scenario, end the relationship. In this case, use the test to rethink or change the dynamics of your relationship.
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