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Men’s dilemma 39 Three irreversible states of life
There are three irreversible states of life: getting sick, buying a house, getting married and having children. These three decisions are tantamount to negative justice for people pursuing a career.
▋1. Sick
Almost everyone knows this. When you are sick, you lack the energy to do things well in your life. I was also previously infected with the virus during the epidemic and was unable to do all the important things in my life for two weeks.
If the virus is like this, the cancer will become more serious, which means that your healthy cells will gradually corrode, and at this point you will no longer have time to think about your own life.
Viruses and cancer are less common, but more people become chronically ill, mainly due to the effects of dietary habits.
An unhealthy diet and a lack of micronutrients can lead to dizziness and inability to think, which leads to a lack of willingness to learn and makes it easy to make wrong decisions, which in turn makes life worse.
Because of the high estrogen levels caused by obesity, the higher the body fat percentage, the harder it is to lose weight and the less motivated you are to change your current life. Obesity leads to other symptoms such as diabetes, high blood pressure, cataracts, cardiovascular diseases, etc.
If there is no ability to change life for a long period of time, there is no feeling of satisfaction and success in life, which in turn affects mental health, such as: B. an increased frequency of depression and a feeling of meaninglessness.
If you are sick, forget about it, but if it is so serious that you have to stay in bed, it will affect your family and friends around you. It’s not just that you just die, but more often you want to die, but you can’t die, so all you can do is lie in bed and be tormented by all sorts of things. The illness lasted for decades.
Relatives and friends can only spend time, energy and money to clean up the mess that you yourself could have prevented.
▋2. Buy a house
When I was in my early thirties, friends started taking out loans to buy houses. This article is only about the house buying situation in Taiwan.
The paradox is that they should obviously be happier than me, after all, each of them has an annual salary of at least 600,000 yuan, and that doesn’t include the year-end bonus.
That’s why they recently talked to me about how they also want to do self-media, increase their outside income, and even have the opportunity to start a business to make more money.
Because buying a house requires a long-term loan, which means your entire life’s cash flow is very tight. Once you get this month’s salary and pay the mortgage and living expenses, you will have almost no money left for your own life, entertainment, etc. Study.
So if your salary and skills at work cannot grow, and the job content requires long-term overtime, it means that your life is locked up and you are unhappy, and people cannot be like machines and busy themselves with unfulfilling things for decades. .
I think if they’re happy, either their salary increases or they wait decades later until the cash flow is steady and the mortgage is paid off. The former need to use their time more efficiently, and the latter need blessings.
▋3. Get married and have children
Every man has different reasons for having children. One hopes for success in life, the other for a partner in the future.
But children are like a house. It is safer to make a decision when you have enough resources to raise a child.
Although I have met several e-commerce bosses who run their businesses while having wives and children, it seems that either their body shape has changed and their health has been lost, or they don’t have time to pick up girls, so They can only protect their wives from doing anything else. Just get things done and take care of them.
The remaining bosses are very powerful, but the chances are really very slim.
It depends on how each man weighs it up. I cannot accept a life without a wife. It’s too uncomfortable.
Dealing with the three-part package of children’s education, growth and companionship is tiring enough. If you get married, you may also have to pay a mortgage. When you live at home, you have to deal with the life problems between your family and your wife, which are very busy for you.
▋Conclusion
You will notice that the way of life that the school taught students back then was tantamount to depleting a person’s financial resources and sending them back to the state.
They are like a gear that is built into a company to continually generate financial resources. The money is eventually paid back to hospitals, housing taxes, schools, etc.
If you are very stressed, you need to start smoking, drinking, consuming sugar and caffeine. When you finally get sick, you pay the money to the hospital and send it back to the government.
Even if you plan to stop taking these medications, you will be reminded of this at all times in supermarkets and liquor stores.
It’s best to make sure your career and income have passed a certain threshold and are ready to take off before thinking about the security of asset allocation.
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